Official Newsletter of St. Mary’s College Alumni Foundation, Inc.
July 2010
NEWS BRIEFS
Ondoy Relief Project at Nangka, Marikina On Sept. 26, 2009, while most families may be enjoying the cool breeze from Ondoy’s rains, tragedy was unfolding in many parts of Luzon, mainly Metro Manila. It wasn’t until news time in the early evening when the face of massive loss of lives and properties was evident that the realization began. Landlines and mobile phones were busy with calls to and from friends and relatives here and abroad. (Read more on page 4)
SMC 85: Pinay Beyond Borders Balik sa Bahay ni Big Sister! By Cecile Ruiz- Batalla, Batch ‘85
Napindan, Taguig Relief Operation Almost instantly after learning of the Alumni Foundation’s relief operations, donations in all forms from Marians worldwide poured in thus inspiring the Foundation to further its relief work. Napindan, Taguig was set as the next beneficiary. (Read more on page 4)
“ I’ ve learned… that you should not say no to a gift from god” The last quarter of 2009 kept the Foundation on its toes, that the last relief project earmarked for October was postponed to December then February 2010…NOW we know the reason WHY….. (Read more on page 5)
ABS-CBN’s longest running reality TV show “Pinoy Big Brother (PBB)” provides a friendly backdrop to our Silver jubilee celebration this year. Indeed the world is watching – as some 185 Pinays from Batch 85 “come home” to Mother Ignacia St., Quezon City, Philippines. Be they in the flesh, fresh from the airport, straight from the gym, or via Skype, Mobile
Face book or YM, or if Wifi signals permit – via live video streaming! After a 25-year sojourn, we find a nest to return to and visit yet again- ang bahay ni Big Sister – Ignacia, Berns, Connie, Petra, Evelyn, Assumpta – and reconnect with heart and soul sisters of years past. The voice and (Continued on page 10)
Grand Alumni Home coming 2010 by Risse Aquino Jose, Batch ‘76
It’s that special time of the year when the grounds literally shake under our feet. From Mother Ignacia Avenue all the way to Sct. Reyes. The halls and the walls come alive. The auditorium gets spruced up. The stage gets prettified with flowers and balloons. Lovely ladies doing last minute make-up checks. And the microphones and sound system, their sound checks. Even the spanking-new Immaculate Concepcion Hall gets broken in for hundreds of feet trekking in for socials. No girls, and yes girl. No, just because we see a huge PBB sign, you might think it’s your
kapamilya network readying its reality show. And yes, the stage is set. And everyone wants to be part of the reality show. It is the kind of show where every Marian graduate would like to take part in. Music up and under. The voice over announcer booms “ladies and gentlemen”. Lights up. It’s the St. Mary’s College Grand Alumni Homecoming 2010. It’s double –up time. Double the year since we left high school. Double the excitement and double the fun. Today, we are all celebrities as we in our own show, Pinay Beyond Borders ( PBB). (Continued on page 12)
Marian Alumni Newsletter • July 2010
Message
President’s Report Lulu R. Robles, Batch ’79 President, SMCAFI (2007-2011)
Sr. Maria Anicia B. Co, RVM President, SMC, QC
Just as I thought my 2009 Report was the last, here I am once again privileged for the third time to be providing our dear alumni with the news and events of the year that was. It is most gratifying that my effort to serve as President of the Alumni Foundation during the first term was recognized, thus earning the faith and confidence of my co-officers and members. Being entrusted with the Presidency for the second term is indeed an honor and blessing beyond remuneration. For this I sincerely thank my colleagues without whose support for my leadership and their selfless dedication to the Foundation’s cause I wouldn’t be in such a privileged position. In grateful return, I can only pledge to further my service as leader of the Alumni Foundation and a humble servant of our dear Alma Mater The past year was yet another remarkable one for the Alumni Foundation but also a mournful year for our country. With the onslaught of typhoons Ondoy and Pepeng, thousands of lives perished and millions worth of properties were destroyed. The agony of those who lost their loved ones was inconceivable. Thousands were displaced as floods washed away and submerged houses, without sparing those sturdily nestled in posh subdivisions. However, the resiliency of Filipinos amidst misfortune and the Bayanihan spirit prevailed. Government agencies and organized groups immediately embarked on rescue and relief operations. Your Alumni Foundation, heeding to the call of duty, pooled together whatever resources they can give through the Alumni Fund and donations from it’s members. As soon as news blasts were posted in batches’ e-groups as well as other social networking sites, cash donations from alumni worldwide, including friends and families, came in leaps and bounds. Our deepest gratitude goes to these people who generously shared their blessings and trusted the Alumni Foundation with their donation. After all details were in order, relief operations by Alumni members and volunteers were immediately carried out in Nangka, Marikina and Napindan, Taguig: two of the hardest hit towns in Metro Manila. Some 1,800 families were handed out canned goods, noodles, rice, biscuits, bottled water and other food items to get them through for a couple of days. Despite the scorching heat of mid day sun, the Alumni volunteers’ cheerful spirit was not for a moment dampened down especially with the very appreciative smiles of our beneficiaries. Thanks also to our dependable gentlemen from the Phillipine Coast Guard who assisted us in Napindan ensuring order in the distribution of relief goods and safety of the residents as they had to cross the river from their still underwater communities. October was a month for visits to orphanages where homeless children, including those displaced by the typhoon, from the House of Refuge were treated with a feeding program and various school materials; and babies from the Good Shepherd Orphanage with milk, water and baby clothes. In December, our traditional Christmas Caroling was a tremendous success that helped us raise P100,000.00 for use in funding High School scholarships and other projects of the Foundation. We are deeply grateful to our benefactors who were not only very generous but were so warm in welcoming us into their homes for a night of Christmas serenade. Each year wouldn’t be complete without our annual visit to our dear sisters at St. Joseph Infirmary. More than their excitement with our little love gifts, it is our presence that brings them most joy. Our reward is in knowing that somehow we gave back to our RVM mentors the honor they truly deserve. Equally deserving of our sincere appreciation is Dean Gloria Santos, who endowed our Alumni Foundation with dedicated service and inspired us with her advocacy of the teachings of Mo. Ignacia del Espiritu Santo. In gratitude, we surprised her with a simple birthday party as she turned 88 last May and on same occasion awarded her with a Plaque of Appreciation. Indeed there is no greater pleasure than a sense of fulfillment, knowing that we, as one Marian family, were able to reach out and ease the burden of our (Continued on page 10)
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My dear Marian Alumni, Praised be Jesus and Mary! My heart is filled with joy and thanksgiving as I think of you and welcome you back to St. Mary’s College, your Alma Mater. Alumni Homecoming is a special moment of grace. It is an opportunity for remembering, rejoicing and re-connecting – with friends and acquaintances, former classmates, teachers, administrators and Sisters who graced your journey of discovery, learning and growth from childhood to adolescence. Precious are the memories of youth! As you come together, may you feel the excitement of reliving the days of your youth and the joy of sharing the beautiful stories and memories that sustained you all through these years. May your coming back to St. Mary’s be like a refreshing dew that awakens your consciousness to the loving presence of God in your life. As you breathe the air of St. Mary’s today, may you be in touch with the spirit that hovers now even at it hovered in your days – the family spirit of the Ignacian Marian community, united in the core values of faith, excellence and service of Venerable Ignacia del Espiritu Santo. Time is of the essence of being human. May you rejoice in the gift of time. Time moves on. We move with time. Time moves us on. In moments of celebration, the past, present and future converge into one and we become aware of the mystery of human thought and imagination. Let this homecoming enable you to appreciate the gift of time. Whether 10, 25 or 40, the years you have been away from your Alma Mater must have enabled you to cherish the values and formation you received from this RVM school. So now, rejoice and thank the Lord God who has brought you home to St. Mary’s. Congratulations to all the Jubilarians! To all our alumni, enjoy this homecoming as we welcome you with open heart and open arms in the spirit of Mary and Venerable Ignacia. Affectionately in the Holy Triune God, S. Ma. Anicia B. Co, RVM
EDITORIAL BOARD Dr. Priscelina Patajo-Legasto ‘69 Lulu R. Robles ‘79 Risse Aquino-Jose ‘76 Corina Parungao-Isaguirre ‘76
Marian Alumni Newsletter • July 2010
Visit to the Sisters
Purple Hearts: A Post Valentine Party
By Nilda Carluen-Bongolan, Batch ‘84 “ A Visit to the Nuns “ by Batch ’84 was nothing short of how simple this activity sounded; because the amount of love and joy that was spread on that Saturday of February 20, 2010 at the RVM Mother House was too overwhelming for everyone who came and participated. The event was entitled “Purple Hearts - a Post Valentine Party “. Literally, it would mean the honors given to military personnel by the United States Army who were wounded or killed in any action defending their country during the war. For Batch ‘84, it meant something more compassionate. Since purple is the color chosen to represent the group, it also meant honoring our beloved RVM Sisters who are moving on to their golden age and those who are simultaneously defending themselves against the battle of disease, sickness and loneliness. Moreover, it was most fitting to celebrate such courage and greatness a week after Valentine’s day!! There was so much love in the air! It started at around 3:00 in the afternoon. The Jubilee Hall was decorated with red and purple balloons. Daughters of Marians from Batch ’84 provided individual song numbers. An all-male musical band rendered new generation songs and heartwarming OPM songs. The day became even more exciting and festive when the games started. How amusing to see the nuns dance to the most popular tune of “Nobody, nobody but you”! The Sisters had so much energy, and they danced so well! Everyone was also caught by surprise when the Sisters sang a few lines from love songs in the game “Love Song Find Your Match”. Of course, no one would ever
forget the funny game, “Pinoy Henyo” but with a little twist using sounds to guess what kind of animals was shown on the pictures. It was so hilarious when our dear Sisters were confused as to how an animal sounded. One would hear all sorts of crackling and slithering only to describe a frog or a snake! It was such a hilarious game! The concluding musical numbers were gaily rendered by the “SMC Alumni Choir” and some inspirational words from a few Members of the Alumni. It became even more heartwarming when Batch ’84 gave away chocolates, red roses and red balloons to all the Sisters who attended the program and also to those staying in the Infirmary. Truly this was such a tearful moment, especially for our batch! The Sisters in the Infirmary expressed their heartfelt thanks and joy over our Valentine gifts and loot bags. Generous members of Batch ’84 donated toiletries, adult diapers, medicines and cash to the infirmary. We would never forget a Sister who openly and repeatedly exclaimed “I Love You” out loud. How could she just do that when she does not even know us personally? This
is proof of courage exhibiting an attitude of cheerfulness while fighting aging, sickness and physical weakness. On the other hand, she exudes an outpouring of so much love and we are her lucky recipients. In the end, not only were our hearts fed but also our stomachs. A sumptuous buffet was served to complete the party. For us, Marians of Batch ’84 the “Visit to the Nuns” gave us a different level of elation, a source of goodness that fulfilled that part of our spirituality. Our efforts starting from the preparation, solicitation, organization of the program to the stage design were definitely worth it. If the Sisters, whom we entertained, felt that we gave them something to enjoy; then, we have to strongly assert that we received so much more from them. They gave us affection and unconditional love. It is like an allegory of a daughter coming back home after long years of being away and feeling that tight hug when she greets her family. “To the RVM Sisters, your daughters from Batch ’84 returned and we just love to come home.”
Grant In Aid Program Launched By The Scholarship Committee By Gwen Pimentel-Gana, Batch ‘77 The St. Mary’s Alumni Foundation has recently launched its Grant in Aid program for school year 2010-2011. Considering the difficulties of the times, the Foundation decided to extend its help to students who are in financial need but do not academically qualify for the full scholarship program. This assistance is made available to students who need help in the payment of their tuition fee due to financial difficulties experienced by their families. Upon assessment of the Scholarship Committee a financial aid of
ten thousand pesos (Php 10,00.00) for tuition fee is given to the student. This year’s recipient is Aira Famela Guevarra, an incoming fourth year student. The Schorlarship Committee has approved for this school year two full scholars, freshman Patrick De Villa and sophomore Joeben Guevarra. Patrick is a graduate of the St. Mary’s Grade school and has a good academic standing. He was previously a grantee
of the government’s education voucher system in his grade school but is now a full scholar of the Foundation. Joeben Guevarra, now on his second year, continuous to enjoy the benefits of being the Foundation’s scholar as he has maintained his good academic standing during his first year. Both students are expected to maintain no grade lower than 85% in all subjects for every grading period for the duration
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of the scholarship. In exchange, the Foundation shall pay their full tuition fee, other school fees such as laboratory, library and other miscellaneous fees. A book allowance up to a maximum of Three Thousand Five Hundred Pesos shall be allotted to each scholar. The scholarship grant shall be renewable every year depending on the student’s academic standing and good moral character as determined by a Scholarship Committee composed of: the Scholarship Committee Chair, the (Continued on page 12)
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Ondoy Relief Project at Nangka, Marikina By Dahra Villanueva-Mendoza, Batch ‘78 (Continued from page 1) True to its commitment to the bond of friendship, St. Mary’s College Alumni board did not waste time. On the same day everyone called and tried to connect with each other, some asking for assistance and others offering their help. Realizing the extent of devastation, the Foundation decided to do its own relief operations, independent of those organized by the tv stations and other groups, especially to those yet to be reached by assistance. On its first leg of operation, Nangka was chosen as best site. It is situated at the far end of Marikina and near San Mateo.
It was all over the news that Marikina was one of the hardest hit by typhoon Ondoy but at the time these photos were taken which was already a few days after the tragedy, help hasn’t reached this far yet. Donations were immediately solicited, apart from the Alumni fund allotted for purchase of relief goods… sardines, eggs, rice, noodles, shirts from “ukay-ukay”, bath soap, laundry soap, and other stuff, repacked with the help of alumnae and their families. On October 4, 2010, Marians from different batches convened at St. Mary’s College and proceeded to Nangka, Marikina. This was the first of a series of relief
operations which the Alumni Foundation embarked on. Relief recipients queued hours before the scheduled distribution, unmindful of the intermittent scorching midday heat and drizzle, all for a few days’ food. Milk and biscuits for kids were also distributed. It was definitely a physically tiring day but the self-gratifying return on the volunteers’ part was far greater especially with the very appreciative smiles of the recipients. Thanks to the Philippine Air Force gentlemen who made sure that the operation was orderly.
Napindan, Taguig Relief Operation (Continued from page 1) On October 14, 2010, an ocular inspection was conducted by Eileen Garcia and Tet Samson accompanied by the barangay captain. It was already two and a half weeks after Ondoy hit the country, yet Purok 6 in Napindan, Taguig was still under water. What used to be streets seemed more like an extension of the river. It was a heartbreaking scene with residents doing their laundry on roofs, sitting on salvaged sofa sets and “papag” atop their roofs waiting for assistance. The SMCQC Alumni Foundation volunteers proceeded with their third leg
of relief operations with Purok 6 of Napindan, Taguig residents as beneficiaries. It was mid day of October 24 when the group reached the venue for distribution. With Purok 6 still under water, the group was stationed at the other side of the Pasig River (Purok 5) where there was available dry land. Originally, it was the group’s plan to deliver the goods across to Purok 6 but was advised by concerned officials against it as the only possible place to work from was an improvised platform on top of the dike that could barely accommodate volunteers and goods. Through the kindness of Admiral Edmund Tan (who happens to be the
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husband of a Marian and an active alumni member, Nini Mercado- Tan of Batch ‘78), the group were fortunate to have been assisted by a group of gentlemen from the Coast Guard who came with two rubber boats which were used to transport recipients to and from Purok 6. Unmindful of the sweltering midday heat, with only handkerchiefs and hand towels as covers, the volunteers cheerfully distributed the relief goods. At the end of the day, after seeing the grateful smiles of the residents, the rewards were far greater than the sunburn and heat rashes which the volunteers all had to endure.
Marian Alumni Newsletter • July 2010
“I’ve learned…
that you should not say no to a gift from God”
By Rhea Gega-Relos, Batch ‘79 (Continued from page 1)
2009. HEART OF MARY VILLA, Malabon is an institution run by the congregation of the Good Shepherd Sisters. It is also home to very young and fragile orphans -new born up to 2 years old that were surrendered and totally abandoned for adoption, and a retreat for unwed and teenage mothers undergoing counseling. Typhoon Ondoy didn’t spare the institution from its torrent. Its wrath collapsed two perimeter walls that segregated the property from the adjoining fishpond and creek. The fast rising waters, filthy and murky, submerged the ground floors of the 2 buildings, including the nursery. The 20 babies, briefly stayed in one converted convent room at the 2nd floor. And due to failing health caused by the stench and presence of stagnant water in the property, they were immediately transferred to the Formation House in Cubao, Quezon City, for temporary shelter and recovery. We were only allowed to drop off the relief goods in Malabon, but were temporarily restrained from visiting the babies in Quezon City due to their condition. This, however, didn’t stop us from helping one particular boy - 2 months old Lorenz Miguel, who was in greater need of medical help at that particular time. With aid coming from H.S. Batch 82, we were able to assist in putting up funds for his pending open heart operation. February 7, 2010. GOOD SHEPHERD. Just a week before Valentine’s day, we were finally allowed by S. Lorenz, Head Directress of HOMV, to visit the babies in Cubao, Quezon City. Entering the cloistered walls of Good Shepherd, we found ourselves inside a community unchanged by time: low-rise pre-war buildings, capiz windows, lush greenery, flower-lined pathways, soft laced curtains, cool breeze, subdued sunlight, wind chimes, red cement floors, wooden planks. It was almost rural. It was almost quiet. A stark contrast from the high-rise fuss outside… We were in a state of transcendence. At the end of the path walk we were warmly welcomed by S. Gabriela, who led us thru a small iron gate to a noisy little blue house. “The babies !”, we heard ourselves say. In prescribed lab gowns, masks, gloves and slippers, we entered in groups of 4 as others eagerly peeked thru the screened windows. Loud shrieks and giggles as we entered the room. Babies playing and crawling in the mattress-laden room, some inside their wooden cribs wriggling their arms and legs up in the air - all requesting to be carried and to play. So soft…so cuddly…so beautiful. “ I’VE LEARNED …. THAT HAVING A CHILD REST IN YOUR ARMS IS ONE OF THE MOST PEACEFUL FEELINGS IN THE WORLD.” The 10 minutes interaction time we constrained ourselves to just wasn’t enough. From the windows we could hear “O, tama na yan. Sobra na kayo sa 10 minutes. Kami naman. “ Laughter all the more. Mother and daughter teams (Dahra & Trina, Candy & Yda), had their wonderful time too. As the others took their turns, Lulu Robles, Pres of the Foundation, presented to the Nursery Supervisor and S. Gabriela donations of feeding bottles, infant formulas, bags of assorted baby’s needs, clothes, disposable diapers, boxes of 10-gallon mineral water and pediatric medicines. It was such a beautiful way to cap the Foundation’s relief projects….simply HEAVENLY.
What living for others mean ONDOY : If it only took a day for us to change our lives…. ...it will take years for these children to forget their experience. FEEDING AT THE HOUSE OF REFUGE We asked ourselves: “How do we comfort these broken children after their harrowing ordeal on September 26, 2009 at Provident Village, Marikina?” Where once their happy home stood is now a picture of forlorn and disarray. A ghostly structure wrapped in mud, and never to come back. 10:30 a.m. October 17, 2009 - Somewhere along the stretch of townhouses in La Vista, Quezon City, orphans of the House of Refuge slowly descended the stairs of their temporary home to welcome us in a small room with timid smiles and eyes that spoke of sadness and pain. “They are still hurting but coping with the loss.”, the social workers discreetly explained to us. Amidst the subdued spirit, the volunteers of the Foundation and some of their children reached out to warmly receive the 28 children, girls and boys, aged 5 -18 years old. As we gradually worked around these children, trying to reintroduce ourselves, we made them remember the fun times we had the afternoon of June 12, 2009 in Marikina – where we first met, where we played games, did a puppet show, and excitedly waited under the piñata. With warm smiles, a little pat on their backs, a few head rubs and words of comfort, the children finally warmed up to us when they started to recall. Prior to serving the meal we had prepared for them, a child’s prayer of thanksgiving and her wish for renewed strength, hope and happiness was heard. Thereafter, plates with generous servings of spaghetti (their most requested), fried chicken and sweet and sour meatballs as big as pingpong balls were distributed to their heart’s delight. Still cramped in their small room, a power point presentation prepared by Ms Gladys (Head Social Worker), was shown. In it were (Continued on page 8)
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Marian Alumni Newsletter • July 2010
Anatomy of a Reunion:
A Home coming Monologue Joy Gonzales- Zarate, Batch ‘85
It took me long to realize that a quarter of a century has passed since we graduated from the august halls of St. Mary’s College. We broke free from the confines of the RVM community only to find ourselves plunging into another academic jungle called the University. Somehow since then, I have longed to go back to a less complicated life with only teenage angst and hormonal changes to bother me. A year ago today, I started reconnecting with my old friends from high school, for a single reason only…Volleyball. I would not cared if it was not for the game. I detested seeing familiar people and reminiscing about how it was way back then. I abhor ed coming face to face with people whom I grew up with. I didn’t care if they were curious about how I was after all these years. Then reality set in. The reason was within me all along. I was insecure of the unknown. I was able to muster enough courage to come back to my former self and face the uncertainties of meeting familiar acquaintances once more. To my relief, I was made to feel welcome like I had been away for ages and was embraced like a long lost sibling. Like a flash of light my fond memories started flooding in. And along with it came the resurrection of my ailing social life. The course of this reunion process was like taking a roller coaster ride through time. It was only then that I discovered how much life had transformed us, each of us evolving into individual beings influenced by how our values were molded by the guiding hands of the RVM. As we grew, we became more aware and vigilant of our rights as being affected by the socio-political upheavals of our generation and made resilient through changes which strengthened our characters. As I slowly come to know each individual’s story, I would like to particularly name a few batchmates whom I, for one reason or another, truly admire. Cara Mosquera transformed herself from oblivion. This squeaky little girl in high school is now the epitome of a Filipino Bagong Bayani. She is a devoted public school teacher now surrounded by multitudes of grade school children under her tutelage. Hers is a task meant for heroes and she embraces it with patience and ease. Analyn Moreno, better known now as Shine, has discovered a new image for herself and literally sparkles. She was my busmate and classmate for a couple of years whom I hardly talked to because she was not fond of talking as much as I was. She now exudes confidence as if it was her second skin believing in what she is capable of. She earned a degree, graduated magna cum laude and danced her way through her masters.
Jean Marquez went to medical school, earned her residency, trained here and abroad, became President of the Philippine Center for Dermatology and Laser Surgery and is now a well-known, celebrity-endorsed dermatologist. But for us, she remains the legendary Moonwalker ever, Billie Jean. Kim Bernardo was a reed-thin, soft spoken girl I knew. I was quite scared to be anywhere near her. Clumsy as I was, I might break her bone. She worked as a television reporter, newspaper columnist, before venturing into politics and eventually earning herself a Congressional seat, advocating Women’s Rights and battling against corruption. Nona Suarez, our nerdy CAT officer, consistent academic awardee, disciplined since she was in diapers. She worked her way to obtain a partnership in a law firm and chose to practice her profession in the Philippines even if she could very well succeed overseas. Although she could only count her friends in high school with the fingers on one hand, she shed and came out of her shell and is now our batch’s Ms. Congeniality attending each and every social event imaginable. The Sensate Girls, whose monicker I claim to have invented, .is composed of swinging singles, committed and happily married ladies. Their pictures are splattered all over the social networking site, Facebook overload as you may call it. But deep inside me I envy their solidarity, compassion for others and zest for life. When the country was devastated by
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a natural calamity, immediately they came together and formed a feeding program, and lined up for hours at a relief goods distribution center to extend assistance. Mother Packers they called themselves and it never sounded obscene. Although most of our girls were given the opportunity to live and work beyond our country’s borders, the rest chose to stay loyal to Motherland. Some have become educators, businesswomen, media practitioners, directors, bankers, designers, architects, medical professionals, social workers, and employees. Others, quite simply have become the average private citizen - mothers, wives and single parents who equally deserve to be recognized because in our own ways, we are all warriors in this battle called life. Marians Batch 85 withstood the tests of time, weathered by personal struggles, environmental and economic changes, health concerns and family matters. We managed to cope and still have hopes for a better future ahead of us because we all have a common denominator inculcated into our young minds by the Ignacian community guided by the core values of faith, service and excellence. Initium Sapientiae Timor Domini. The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom. On our 25th year, I can proudly say, the Marian in me will forever remain. A toast to the next 25, united still how ever diverse we may be .Here is a salute to the women of the batch!
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PBB Teen Edition A Quick Replay - Channel 85 By Cecile Ruiz-Batalla, Batch ‘85 Pinay Beyond Borders is both homecoming theme and the spirit in which we take a tender-hearted walk down memory lane. The reality TV show PBB is perfect set and stage for taking a peak into the lives of Batch 85 - housemates in many ways – who shared precious childhood and teenie-bopper moments up till the new wave and metallic midpoint of the eighties. Welcome to the SMC 85 PBB Teen Edition! Enter sister’s house and share a day in the life of a housemate.. relish and savor a unique and monumental past. The setting of this episode begins with a typical Flag Ceremony at 7 in the morning. Housemates rush to the quadrangle from mini buses, private cars, alight from a Project 2/3 – Project 6 or 8 jeepney, or run frantically on foot. Those who live in the nearby Scout area are sure to skip the first bell and maybe the second – negotiating endlessly with CAT officers to evade the unplanned visit to Mrs. Naval’s plush and comfy office. After offering the day to Jesus, Mary and Joseph, we pledge allegiance to our country with Asia’s most dramatic oath of patriotism – the Panatang Makabayan - a piece of poetry our memories are tested for as early as first grade. We sing the national anthem, belt out our love for SMC, and scuttle to our own little classrooms. Prancing and glancing our way through the red cement floors, kept shiny by Mang Felix’ supreme loyalty and craftsmanship. The hours pass quickly as we get what we came to learn. We speak good English thanks to Mss. Escio, Carbonell, and Victor. The prose and poetry of the West jump to life with Ms. Corpuz’ elegant passing on of the literary classics . We “do the math” with Mr. Don in the early years, then Mesdames Marking, Sagum, Mss. Padua & Salvador equip us to deal with the finite world. We play a little fire (alcohol lamp) in Dexter’s laboratory with
the guidance of Mrs. Gutierrez. We befriend the Paramecium through Ms. Avecilla. We become young gourmands with Ms. Temporal teaching us to dish out entrée exotica —Crabs in shredded coconut and El Turon deliciosa. Naging makata tayo nang dahil kay Ginang Castillo and we learn about society through the passionate eyes of Ms. Corro. Our fingers get exercised with the steno classes of Ms. Comuyog and we keep our hips svelte and lean by swaying to Ms. Baarde’s drum. Ours is a sisterhood of young bright minds that are all for one and one for all – especially in the most trying of times. The teen edition also has a lot of location shoots outside the four walls of our wooden parqueted and squeaky classrooms. On a good day, the camera man witnesses a flurry of action. Mia Malabanan about to dish a lethal spike. Lily Abragan belting a loud and compelling “hanaaaay na” while Charlie company curse the sun and the hairnets. The Board of Presidents scurry to Sr. Berns office for an emergency meeting because Ninoy was shot and this is perfect reason to skip formal classes. Martin Nievera performs live at the auditorium in the campus tour of the decade and everyone becomes His lady. At lunchtime, those with the lunch pass get to check out the latest flick in Delta or Circle, and decide whether the afternoon class sessions are a good idea or not. After all, it is their only chance to see Underage, Blue Lagoon, Endless Love, Katorse, and for the more patriotic among us – Sr. Stella L. Those who wolf down popcorn instead of lunch take a last stab at the sumptuous fare in the Panay food court – scrambled delicious, banana cue, snow cone, fish balls, sago, sweet corn, or the testy gastronomic experience that is “tubo” (sugar cane). Late or not, Mang Malicdem is ready with a friendly smile. The seasons are a special time too as
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Field demonstrations bring out the actress and dancer in each one. As little girls, there is Paper Roses or the folk funk that is Subli. Teen years see us rhythmic (Chaka Kahn) or intense (Lakas ng Seniors)! The Auditorium also makes its mark, despite the eerie portraits behind it. It hosts the Beautiful Filipina – and “Kuya” Kim Atienza – now a household face on national TV – moves us as Ignacia’s life is told in the grand fashion of Fr. Reuter theatrical productions. The Song Fests always swing on a high note with the musical wizardry of Ms. Murillo, Ms. Susie and our very own virtuoso – Raissa Calaguas. We sing pensively to our own mothers with “Ugoy ng Duyan” and belt out in juvenile harmony as though “Tomorrow” would find us all in the slick city scene of “New York, New York!” All of us, alto, tenor, bass or walang kasarian – muster the guts and manage a tune – thanks to the magic potion that is the Salabat. And who can forget “Kahit Konting Pagtingin” or the “Tigers?” We are artists at heart, and we love to put on a good show! And the fair, the fair! The jail booth, marriage booth, kissing booth, and the horror booth – sprayed creepily with tea rose scented perfume. We shake, rattle and roll! We kiss as if there is no tomorrow. We prance around to the groove of the eighties and etch in our hearts the timeless tales of a happy, colorful youth. PBB Teen Edition: Quick Recap It was not all just fun – we also did our fair share of platitudes to God and country. We prayed long and hard, shed a tear or two during that most poignant retreat at Betania. We also marched round the campus, rosary in hand, in a white-bloused, blue-skirted bid to the heavens to help the nation leap from dictatorship to democracy. It was, as the Chinese would call it, truly interesting times! And what Nat King Cole would have himself considered– Unforgettable!
Marian Alumni Newsletter • July 2010
Pinay Beyond Border: Emily Coinco Exclusive!! By Emily Coinco, Batch ‘85 1. Where do you live now and what is an ordinary day like? My name is Emily and my family and I are in transition between Ethiopia to Myanmar. Like most households, a typical day at home begins early in the morning with a family breakfast then off to either school for my son and work for my partner and I. 2. What work do you do and how do you feel about it? I am a humanitarian worker - some people also refer to us as aide workers. I work with refugees and other vulnerable groups within societies, especially women and children. I mostly work in less/least developed countries and/or war-ravaged countries. For instance, I was in Afghanistan right after 9/11. I worked with Afghan communities in providing a safe environment for children by putting up enclosures in community-identified areas where kids can safely play away from wild animals and armed men. We were successful in working with community elders to send their girls to school; as many of you may know, sending a girl child to school is still a daily struggle in many countries. This was further extended to working with the entire community through various training programs for both men and women. We provided training for teachers, anger management training for community elders and men and skills training programs for women. I love my job, I feel blessed to be able to contribute to positive change in many countries. In Sierra Leone, after 12 years of war, I was part of a research team that brought light to the plight of out-of-school children in the country. The Government of Sierra Leone and Donor countries have put their best efforts in addressing issues and recommendations raised by this Study to provide higher educational access to many vulnerable kids through out the country. This Out-of-School Study also became a platform for discussion and advocacy for out-of-school children worldwide. Just this June, UNICEF and UNESCO launched a Global Initiative for Out-of-School Study in 20 countries. Knowing that I was able to somehow contribute in raising their issues and bringing kids back to school, thus providing them an opportunity for a better future is a humbling experience for me.
What living for... (Continued from page 5) images that vividly captured the children’s struggle at the height of the typhoon. The interaction was therapeutic. Each child has his / her own heroic feat to tell - a destroyed window on the second floor were they escaped; a tight rope tied around their tiny waists to form a chain; how the group leaders led their wards to dry land by crossing 4 meter-deep ravaging floodwater; how they hanged on to deactivated high tensioned wires and slowly groped their
3. What brings you joy? What excites you? I love travelling to new countries, meeting people and learning about new cultures. It amazes me to see how much people are different from each other and yet how similar we all are. We hold on to the values we all grew up with, ones we learned from childhood. Yet at the end of the day, we all want the same thing – to be respected and to be treated equally. Working with children and communities in war-ravaged areas and in lessdeveloped countries, is fulfilling. There is so much to learn from each other, the meaning of right and wrong blurs when we cross into other cultures. This is when respect for diversity is the best rule of thumb. Having said this, there’s nothing else that brings me more joy than spending time with my family. Family meals and enjoying the basics in life like appreciating running water and electricity is something we quickly learn in this line of work. Appreciating the simple things in life and spending time together as a family is the most treasured time for all of us. 4. What do you admire about other global Marians like you? ( cite some folks if you know of them) I am proud to be a Marian. Thanks to modern technology, I have been able to remain in touch with many who are in other parts of the world. Friendship is something that many of our batchmates value. As we graciously age, life has been a ride full of happiness and challenges. I admire many in our batch who are single mothers, those working overseas with little or no family and emotional support, working mothers juggling work and household responsibilities – hats off to all of you. What amazes me about our batch is the closeness and openness. So for those who are far from home or those who need to reconnect – just reach out and believe me you won’t be sorry. I’m so glad to be in touch with most of you. Thanks for your friendship and the camaraderie.
school? Thinking about high school always brings a smile to my face. I remember the kindness of many of our teachers, goofing off and learning from my mistakes…well from most of it…but most of all, I learned the meaning of loyalty, humility, strength and true friendship. I always tell my son that I hope he’ll enjoy his high school as much as I did… but maybe not have as much fun as I did… 6. What has been your biggest challenge living on your side of the world? Answering the question “where do you live” has been a big challenge. I keep moving from one country to another that it’s difficult to explain where I really live and why I live there. The next tough question is “tell me about the Philippines,” being away from the Philippines for over a decade makes it difficult to be “in touch” with what’s happening in the Philippines…so once in awhile I surf the web and read about the latest happening in our country. The integrating into another culture or the frequent lack of electricity or running water is really nothing compared to the fact that I could not talk about our country.
5. What is a fond memory from High school that keeps you going? Inspired? I have so many fond memories from SMC…frequent visits to Mrs. Naval’s office…. hanging with friends…bananaques and sago, and who can forget the fish balls outside the
7. What is your hope for our country? For our batchmates? For Marians of all ages? In the last six years, I have been to two countries in Africa (Sierra Leone and Ethiopia) that have conducted their presidential election. Yet I have never seen as much hope and enthusiasm from people in receiving the new president as I’ve recently seen in the Philippines. I hope that this optimism and enthusiasm would translate into action and positive change for our country. I pray for a better and stronger economy and a sound leadership and governance from the President Noynoy. To our batchmates, thanks for the friendship over the years! Enjoy the Jubilee, sorry I won’t be able to make it. Live life to the fullest and enjoy the simple things in life. For the Marians of all ages, be proud to be a Marian and that you are part of a long legacy. As many before us lived their lives in service of others and contributed to a positive global change – do not be afraid to take risks. It’s the only way we can all learn. Enjoy life and remember your roots!
way to reach a neighbor’s roof; how they transferred from one roof to the other; crossed streets barefoot until they were rescued and with nothing else saved from the orphanage except for the wet clothes on their frail bodies. We gave them a warm round of applause doubled with a special ice cream treat to commend them for their bravery. And while they were still taking pleasure with their yummy ice cream cone, the sons and daughters of our alumni distributed packets of art materials (in colorful designs with their favorite cartoon characters on it) courtesy of Batch’83.
Likewise, turned over to the orphanage were sacks of assorted toiletries, laundry needs, old clothes, new underwear, flat iron & iron board from the Foundation’s generous donors. 2:00 pm. Siesta time – As the children returned to their rooms, running, scrambling and shuffling footsteps with light chatters, minute laughter and soft giggles were heard above us. And as we stepped out of their home, piping cheery little voices called out from their second floor windows, “Thank you po”…” Maraming salamat po”…”Ingat po kayo”…”God bless”. J
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Marian Alumni Newsletter • July 2010
SMC Batch 1980 celebrates Pearl The birth of a pearl is truly a miraculous event. Unlike gemstones or precious metals that must be mined from the earth, pearls are grown by live oysters far below the surface of the sea. Gemstones must be cut and polished to bring out their beauty. But pearls need no such treatment to reveal their loveliness. They are born from oysters complete with a shimmering iridescence, lustre and soft inner glow unlike any other gem on earth. A natural pearl begins its life as a foreign object, such as a parasite or piece of shell that accidentally lodges itself in an oyster’s soft inner body where it cannot be expelled. To ease this irritant, the oyster’s body takes defensive action. The oyster begins to secrete a smooth, hard crystalline substance around the irritant in order to protect itself. This substance is called “nacre.” As long as the irritant remains within its body, the oyster will continue to secrete nacre around it, layer upon layer. Over time, the irritant will be completely encased by the silky crystalline coatings. And the result, ultimately, is the lovely and lustrous gem called a pearl. How something so wondrous emerges from an oyster’s way of protecting itself is one of nature’s loveliest surprises. For the nacre is not just a soothing substance. It is composed of microscopic crystals of calcium carbonate, aligned perfectly with one another, so that light passing along the axis of one crystal is reflected and refracted by another to produce a rainbow of light and color. (Taken online from the American
Pearl website) Thirty is just a number. But the same many years did not dampen our collective spirits. We belong to Batch 1980. We reconnected when we celebrated our Silver Anniversary five years ago. As our way of giving back and paying it forward, we have sent two scholars to study in our Alma Mater, hoping that they would be given the same quality education and opportunity we had then. We saw them graduate in 2009. On their senior year, we rallied again together to keep our promise to them and raised funds to see them through. Again, we reconnected. Long-lost friends were found. With the help of modern technology, we
have kept in touch and updated each other of our lives. We picked up where we left off. It was as if we never separated. But we are older now. Looking back, we realized that we were still the young school girls we were – full of promise, full of dreams, eager to take on challenges along the road called Life. We are the still the same, yet different. Now, we have our families, careers and everything in-between. Thirty years… and what do we have to show for it? We can show you our pearls. “And the result, ultimately, is the lovely and lustrous gem called a pearl.”
Caroling for Scholarship Mayang Sison-Pascual, Batch ‘76 invited to SMC related functions such as the most recent gathering of the Federation of the Alumni Associations of RVM Schools. Of course, it literally takes a village to raise P100,000.00. This has gone a long way to cover the tuition fees, books & miscellaneous expenses of our school’s economically challenged and deserving students. And so, it is with so much appreciation and love that we acknowledge the friends and family who opened their homes, had generous hearts and deep pockets! A lot of people are eagerly watching out for this chorale as it stretches its repertoire and expands its audience reach. A past alumni foundation president is even predicting and anticipating a fundraising concert that will showcase the chorale’s musical muscle and mastery along with other alumni celebrities who are just waiting in the wings to participate and say ‘thank you’ to our dear alma mater that molded our minds and hearts and made us who we are today. The members of the SMC Alumni Choral include: Candy Ocampo ’83, Carol Aguilar ’75, Corina Parungao-Isaguirre ’75, Dahra Villanueva-Mendoza ’78, Filna Cortez-Felix ’74, Lenie Tadena ’78, Leny Pagulayan ’79, Lulu R. Robles ’79, Lynn Aguilar-Umali ’70, Maribeth Cabanero-Fernandez ’78, Mayang Sison-Pascual ’76, Myra Lontok ’78 (choirmaster), Meiose Tan-Cristobal ’82, Mimi Carreon ’79, Nini Mercado-Tan ’78, Peachie Ribaya-Bumatay ’74, Rhea Gega-Relos ’79, Tet Samson ’79, Vangee Andrada-Palileo ’71, and Myra Lontok ’78 (choirmaster).
The SMCAF Choral group did it again for three straight years! They say that three is a charm as the group generated a cool hundred grand for this year’s scholarship fund during the Christmas holidays. It pumped up the fund such that it enabled the Alumni Foundation to expand the assistance to three scholars this incoming school year. What started out as a motley group of music lovers and former HS songfest members, became a committed chorale that rigorously practiced three times a week leading to the caroling holidays. What’s more, these women that cuts across HS batches, have ended up almost as real professionals on stage now that they are more often
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Marian Alumni Newsletter • July 2010
A favorite task: mothering goes on and on and on… Eileen Tawatao-Garcia ’74 “ Love till it hurts” said Mother Teresa of Calcutta..isn’t this what mother’s love is all about? Passing on love, care and touch to the abandoned and neglected children is a continuing and favorite service of the SMCAF Inc. thus a visit to Mother Teresa’s Home of Joy for sick children on September 11, 2009. The sight of 80% of the children with cerebral palsy pierced our hearts that bled for a long while, even after we have gone back to our homes. A puppet show of various sea creatures was prepared by some Alumni directors and friends, but others preferred to cuddle and help feed the sick children. Feeding materials, character balloons, pillows, milk and sacks of rice were donated to the orphanage. To some of us, this particular orphanage has cut deep into our soul. So we have pledged to come
back at least once a month to bring our families and other people to experience “this piece of heaven” as another portrait of Mother Teresa says that “every act of love brings a person closer to face Jesus.” The SMCAF Inc. has opened avenues to other groups and individuals who desire to reach out to the needy, as in the case of Fair Golf, an Australian-based association composed of Filipinos who donated a substantial amount to two orphanages. A member, Mr. Ben Montecastro, the husband of Maggie NavalMontecastro (HS ’77), opted to celebrate his birthday in the orphanage last May 27, 2010. Many other members as well as friends of the Alumni have followed suit. Jingle Tuason of Batch ’79 came all the way from New York
SMC 85: Pinay Beyond Borders...
the arts. Poignant are the tales of those who chose to stay and feed their hearts daily with dreams of our country being great again. Religiously tending to family, holding on to timeless values — amidst a nation gasping for air due to corruption, nepotism, and apathy. Our Pinays in Pinas continue to uphold our shared Marian ideals in their own place under the sun. Yet beyond borders is not just about geography. It is about Batch 85 traversing and transcending all that stand in the way of the free spirit and the grand dream. The borders of time – never failing to look back and pay heed to what is classic and timeless: values of family, respect for elders, life lessons learned, and love of native culture and tradition. The borders of culture – reveling in the diversity of fashion, passion, & persuasion. We have different ways of having fun, we want different pieces of the action – we may pull in this direction and that…yet at heart, we always want the same things. We always respect each other. The borders of space or cyberspace. We have embraced technology and technology has loved us back. We are up to 10,000 miles apart and yet – we are in touch by the day. Face book has allowed us to know each other’s children and loved ones, celebrate their triumphs, sing their praise. Yahoo has allowed us to share the pain, when loved ones bid adieu – and hold each other’s hand on a mundane day, if only through a forwarded message that inspires the heart. The borders of dreams. We have pursued different paths, our feet on fire toward different dreams. We want our children to have good lives, we wish for better health, we want our parents secure, we want to tick off our bucket lists, and we want to give back to the society that has taken us as its own. We are headed north and east and south and westward – but journey not alone. With every triumph, we know our batch mates will applaud. With every trial, someone’s got our back. So Pinay Beyond Borders is about Batch 85’s timeless circle of friendship and trust. And as we come home, we cherish and relish “the School we love” and the sisterhood that makes the future so warm and bright!
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email exchanges at the Yahoo e-group jump to life as shrieks, laughter, songs, dance moves, and tons of warm embrace re-bind a sisterhood dispersed by time and distance to the near and far places of the earth. When we left the safe and nurturing walls of the SMC campus a quarter of a century ago, the headlines began to feature Cory Aquino - hero’s widow later turned first Pinay president – setting hearts ablaze with the dream of a democracy’s return. The papers today trumpet the quips of Noy Noy Aquino – Cory’s son and now president-elect – readers’ fingers crossed for better days and brighter futures. The two decades and a half sandwiched by these two historical events – have found Batch 85 busy, toiling, keeping the faith – “by the sweat of their brows they did live”! Mothers, wives, daughters, sisters, professionals, civic servants, patriots, lifelong friends they’ve been – taking Ignacia’s ideals and making a difference in the lives of those around them. Today we salute each one - endowed, valiant, “maabilidad,” “madiskarte”, and beautiful in their own right. Pinay Beyond Borders speak to the travails and triumphs of Batch 85 – both here and abroad. With effusive pride and timeless affection we salute the global Marians! Emily, Jennifer, Lilly, Weng, Imma, Paulynn, Megan, Leah, Connie, Lou, Dada, Jaiselle, Joie, and countless many others who have carried the flag of faith, excellence and service beyond geographic borders. To the plains of Africa, the skylines of New York, the shores of the San Francisco Bay, the Skyscrapers of Singapore, and the bustling Cosmopolitan hub that is Dubai. Making a mark that is proudly Marian, proudly Pinay! Simultaneously raising families, keeping jobs, and building futures with the fierce determination, bravado, and grace of the Beatas dela Compania de Jesus. Within our local borders, the stories of professional successes abound as Batch 85 have made their mark in politics, business, medicine, law, the sciences, engineering, urban planning, finance, and
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with two sacks of Jasmine rice as well as a considerable amount of money as donations. A revisit was conducted to the House of Refuge to check on how the typhoon has affected them. It was a relief to see that the children have overcome the trauma of rampaging water in their former home in Provident Village in Marikina. With the generosity of some benefactors and the neighborhood, they are comfortably housed in middle class Grand Villas temporarily until they find their own home. The SMCAF Inc., together with HS ’83 and HS ’79 sponsored a feeding program and distributed learning materials. The Good Shephered Orphanage was also a recipient of canned goods, milk, bottled water and infant garments.
President’s Report (Continued from page 2)
fellow Filipinos who are disadvantaged and pain afflicted. After a year-long hard work, the Foundation’s Board and members took a well deserved break with an outing at a Laguna resort. In work and in fun, our camaraderie will remain deep-seated and timeless because it is founded on a noble mission. As President, I take pride in the Foundation’s accomplishments over the last three years, and I particularly commend my dedicated and enthusiastic working team who toiled selflessly to ensure that community services are delivered and projects completed. To all Marian alumni who contributed to our success in many ways, through prayers, service or donations, I salute you on behalf of the Board. Because every undertaking of our Foundation is significant to you, I commit to update you regularly on our activities through our official website and through my next President’s Report, including events and programs worthy of note to all Marians worldwide. Today may just be another one of the countless memorable homecomings, but what makes each one significant are the newfound friendship and the excitement of bonding and reuniting with old buddies and mentors. The true essence of each homecoming, however, remains to be the reaffirmation of our commitment as Marians that we can make a difference in the lives of our fellowmen and that our responsibility did not end in graduation. Together, let us strive towards keeping our connections strong as it is only in unity that we can stand as family. Let us make our Alma Mater and the Alumni Foundation a vital part of our past, present and future, for it is only through our active involvement and continued pursuit of excellence and service that the RVM teachings and Ignacian spirit instilled in us can truly flourish.
Marian Alumni Newsletter • July 2010
So we (Batch ’75) think we can dance?
Ye ah!
Put yourself in this moment . . . . the year is 2000, the New Millennium, and the Grand Alumni Homecoming Silver Jubilarians are High School Batch 1975 !!! The crowd is mesmerized by the presentation - - - Marians’ eyes are glued to the performance, jaws are dropping, mouths are gaping - - - the audience hypnotically move to the music and sporadically shriek like fanatics. Celebration time, indeed ! Yeah, yeah !!! However, in the frenzy of it all, no one thought of clicking those Kodak cameras (wala pang digital cams noon) nor focusing those movie cameras for posterity’s sake. Yes, ladies and gentlemen, that momentous occasion did not have any visual remembrance of any sort. Only happy memories of a grand time in our minds. I searched high and low from the school and batchmates, but to no avail. Thus this article . . . I will relay what I can recall to help one and all, especially Batch ’75, to reminisce this wondrous event. After all, we spent almost 2 months practicing the dance steps, including 2 costume changes. Here goes . . . . The emcee announced the Batch’s presentation and the crowd was enthralled with glimpses of national milestones, such as . . . VIDEO CLIP: President Marcos declaring Martial Law - September 1972 (when we were only freshmen) the beginning of an infamous twenty-year reign BATCH’75: Julia Gonzales in barong and dress slacks as Ferdinand and Evelyn Romualdez (niece of the then first lady) in gold-colored sequined terno as Imelda cum frilly parasol with a military aide (c/o Peppin Aguilar) gracefully paraded themselves to their constituents VIDEO CLIP : Margie Moran, epitome of timeless beauty,
By Corina Parungao-Isaguirre, Batch ’75
wins the Miss Universe - August 1973 B AT C H ’75 : Josefina Jacinto, ( sans her baby and puberty fat) in satin ecru backless gown , with crown and scepter to boot, enters a la Moran regally waving and throwing kisses to the Filipino people VIDEO : Thrilla in Manila (Muhammad Ali and Joe Frazier) - September 1975 the third and final famous boxing match between Muhammad Ali and Joe Frazier for the Heavyweight Boxing Championship of the World BATCH’75: Evangeline Bautista in boxing attire (complete with cape) recreated the brutal encounter by strutting out as Muhammad Ali, the CHAMP, viciously huffing and punching on stage - - - simulating “dancing like a butterfly and stinging like a bee” as best as she could
Then . . . retro music blazed the airwaves that suddenly brought us all to a different time zone. The silver and royal blue foil curtains on stage repeatedly parted to show dancers- in-pairs that zoomed out in hippie-style tops and bell-bottom jeans gyrating to a 70’s disco music medley. Performers were (alphabetically) : Carol Aguilar, Evangeline Bautista, Maria Isabel Domingo, Julia Gonzales, Corabel Navarrete, Jo Ortega, Ma. Corina Parungao, Evelyn Romualdez, Anastacia Salamat, Nilda Sumabat and adopted Marian, Perlita Hernandez. The batch revived dances of their “good old days” such as twelve steps, salsa, bump, hustle, locomotion and swing, maybe even el bimbo (?) to such hits as Staying Alive, Do the Hustle, Do the Bump, Rock Baby Rock, I Love the Nightlife, Boogie Wonderland, Boogie Night, Funky Town, Saturday Night Fever, and Shake Your Groove Thing. The presentation included a ballroom dance : a swing number from cocktaildressed Nilda Sumabat and the choreographer to the tune of Dancing Queen. ( Wala pa namang vertigo — kayang-kaya pang paikot-ikot!) The rest of the
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dancers came back in turtleneck knit tops and denim shorts ( yes, shorts! but with black tights to hide the cellulite - - - haha! ) Thanks to Jo and Nashtee for agreeing to be cage dancers. Uso ‘yun nung panahon namin, ah! ;D Our number ended with music including We are Family and Celebration Time and the performers donned “jogging suits” with pompoms - - - a semblance of a cheerleading number - - - an ending with a bang, I might say !!! ( Sorry po, NO cartwheels, somersaults nor splits — kasi mga wala sa kondisyon - - - confetti na lang — ehek! ). On our 35 th Anniversary from graduation, our Coral Jubillee, only four brave souls: Grace Guiang, Jo Ortega, Ma. Corina Parungao and Nilda Sumabat (again alphabetically arranged) will dance to the music of Sean Kingston’s Fire Burning on the Dancefloor. We offer this to our batch mates who are mostly out – of – the - country, have very hectic work schedules or are attending to loved ones who are needing extra care; the rest of the SMCQC alumni and the graduating students this year. So we think we can dance? So we think! Go party!
Marian Alumni Newsletter • July 2010
Three-In-One
We eke nd-Get-Away! Mimi Carreon, Batch ‘79
The SMCQC Alumni Board together with the Alumni Choir went packing for a weekend getaway from the hassles and bustles of the city for a time of concentrated planning and fine tuning of the final leg of annual homecoming activities scheduled on July 17th 2010. This year’s Grand Alumni Homecoming titled “ MARIAN ’85, PINAY BEYOND BORDERS” will honor this year’s jubilarians Batch’85 ( Silver), Batch’80 ( Pearl), Batch’75 ( Coral ), Batch ’70 ( Ruby) and Batch ’60 ( Golden). The day started with a yummy brunch prepared by the able staff and crew of the Jonel Spring Resort in Pansol, Laguna served at the main dining room ( of course this scene was one of the many highlights during the weekend stay , and repeated every so often within the day… thank you to the resort’s staff for a kind and caring way of accommodating us). This was followed by long lazy lounging overlooking a panoramic view of Mount Makiling as we sat across a beautifully landscaped swimming pool steaming with Pansol’s natural hot springs and breathed in fresh mountain air to expel the city smog from our over exhausted lungs. Just before the main meeting started, a short course on Tai-Chi ( sponsored by Kuya Roland Robles, the current Alumni President’s brother, was a surprise bonus. The Tai-Chi is a series of hand and foot techniques that is said to be a moving form
Pinay Beyond Borders... (Continued from page 1) The stars of the show are the silver jubilarians of high school batch 1985, the pearl jubilarians who are celebrating 30 years from high school of 1980, coral jubilarians of high school batch 1975 and all other graduates in between and beyond. For openers, we have the celebration of the Mass at the Anunciation Hall sponsored by the High School batch of ’85. Registration of all returning Marians and guests is at the Auditorium entrance. For the first time SMCQC College Dean S. Ma.Lourdes Fernandez takes to the stage for the welcome remarks. Stellar numbers include dances from the rock- androlling 50’s, the psychedelic 60’s, the dancing 70’s, the dynamic 90’s and beyond. We have the RVM sisters doing their bit, to the newest batch of 2011. Well-loved alumni prexy Lulu Robles delivers a power-packed President’s Report. A roll- call of the foundation’s officers,
of YOGA combined with meditation. It is executed with slow, soft, graceful and even smoothness between transition of each movement or sets of movement. Observing and following the movements of the trainer has caused crampy muscles, long unused almost non existent to become alive while those over used ones seemingly felt like they were getting aligned and toned. It was just a little more than an hour too that we tried it and yet a whole season of exhausted bones and muscles felt relieved of their tension! One could almost conclude this was a calculated tactic to get the body and brains working just in time for the main agenda! Of course the Board meeting could have been done and accomplished at the Alumni Office at the SMCQC sans the countless hours of sitting together with never ending tales and anecdotes about each other’s woes and cares over the past few weeks maybe even months, sans tales of each other’s escapades and
thrills through the summer and their summer sale finds, sans laughter and giggling while swimming or wading in the pool surrounded by mommy’s little girl or little boy amidst the drizzling of the first week of June as it kisses goodbye the scorching heat of the summer in May, sans the giggles while sitting jam packed round the Jacuzzi whilst comparing toe nail polish, sans the joy of hanging out with each other, totally relaxed and unguarded playing games and having fun under the fading sun of a June afternoon while in the backdrop some sung with the karaoke till the break of dawn. But why would we want to limit ourselves to the mundane and the ordinary when we could have work, fun and relaxation all THREE – IN –ONE? And so fully restored and recharged, the Alumni Board and Alumni Choir now armed and ready to greet you at the Grand Homecoming come July 17th 2010! See you there!
movers and shakes all, follows. Atty. Gwen Gana presents a report on the scholarship drive and announces the names of the three new scholars. The Alumni Choir then takes centerstage with a serenade of melodies that will bring back good, really good memories. Bringing the house down are the Pinays of the eighties. The silver jubilarians of high school batch’85, who have come together, shoulder – to – shoulder, knee- to- knee to give rousing musical numbers as they reminisce about their high younger years. This tight band of women eager to give back to the school they love have banded even tighter to come up with generous doses of their resources to beef up the alumni foundation’s coffers, give some lucky high schoolers a chance to study, gratis in the same school that taught them really good values and more, paying forward. We are proud of you sisters. Truly Pinays Beyond Borders. Hey, c’mon down and let’s party. There will be more at dinnertime and raffle time. Music Up, Under and out…
Grant In Aid Program...
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(Continued from page 3) Alunmi VP for Internal Affairs, Alumni Treasurer, an Alumni Representative designated by the President and the Alumni President. A Marian education ingrains in every alumni the desire to give back to the community and the school. It is not surprising therefore that this year’s Silver Jubilarian, the batch of ’85 has pledged Two Hundred Forty Thousand Pesos to the scholarship fund. Like in previous years, celebrating batches have donated various amounts of money to keep the scholarship fund alive and because of this generosity of Marians the world over, the Foundation has sent numerous deserving but financially disadvantaged students to school, the Ignacian way. It is through the scholarship program of the Alumni Foundation that the legacy of Mother Ignacia lives on. Mabuhay ang Marian!
Marian Alumni Newsletter • July 2010
Th ank You
Thank You Dear Marians for taking this political journey with me and in believing we can make a difference in the lives of the people especially the children. The campaign was an experience I will never forget. I went to far off places not normally visited by usual tourists and in the process met so many interesting people with their own stories to tell. It was a life changing experience for me. I found it tiring but at the same time exhilarating. It meant a lot to me that people listened to what I had to say on causes I cared about especially re the plight of the abandoned and neglected children of this country. I had to find the courage to stand up before hundreds of thousands of people to tell them my story and the stories of the children and why I was fighting for their future. I viewed the campaign as an opportunity to inform the people that it is only if we give our children a better life now, that we can be assured of a better future for our country. The child’s name is today. We have to attend to the needs of our children NOW. A healthy and happy child becomes a responsible citizen in the future. Deciding to take on the challenge of running for the Senate was not easy for me. But, I am not one to run away from a challenge and on hindsight, I believe this is so because I am a Marian. The RVM education from grade school to high school has honed my character more than I realized. It is only after I became active with the alumni association that I fully appreciated what it meant to be a Marian and to be part of the RVM family. Mother Ignacia was the First Filipina of her time, who against all odds established a community of empowered women choosing to serve God & country in their own way. She withstood all hardships and sacrificed a lot for what she believed in and she did it in her own humble and simple way. As Marians we are taught to be strong and not to be afraid to fight for what we believe in, but, in the process of doing so never to forget to be humble servants of Jesus and Mary. It was also only when I joined the alumni association that I felt what it was like to be part of the RVM family..I have met a lot of great & good friends in the alumni association that I cannot imagine going through life without having known them as I know them now. At this point, I’d like to thank especially the Board for helping me through the campaign, namely: Our dear President Lulu Robles and her brother Kuya Roland, Vangee Palilleo, Eileen Tawatao-Garcia, Amy Tengco,Mayang Pascual, Risse Aquino-Jose, Lynn Aguilar-Umali, Nini Mercado-Tan, Rhea Gega-Relos,Tet Samson, Peachie Ribaya-Bumatay, Meiose Tan-Cristobal, Candy Ocampo,and Dahra Mendoza. And to our Board of Advisers, my heartfelt thanks to the ever lovable Dean Gloria Santos, Sister Annie Go and the RVM Community, Fe Arellano, Lorna Kapunan, Preachy Legasto, Grace de Jesus, Corinna Isaguirre Parungao, Ma. Luisa Pablo, Sessie Caoyonan and Cecille Temporal. You are friends for life. Thank you very much from the bottom of my heart. Fellow Marians, your trust and confidence in me meant a lot. It was indeed an honor for me to have been your voice during the past five months of the campaign. God Bless and Praise Be Jesus and Mary!
United colors indeed…
all for the Love of Gwen Eileen Tawatao- Garcia ’74
Election fever was fiery hot in the air. Most pinoys, unlike other election period, wore with pride different colors of yellow, orange, green, red and what have you, just to show their party or candidate preference. The alumni board, an involved lot, did their share of this nationalistic exercise, each had her own color in shirt, watch, pin, car sticker, baller… anything at all to show one’s forerunner. But all the different colors united in the name of Love for Gwen and inspite of our diverse leanings, we wore orange “Pimentel for Senator” tee shirts. We wanted a Marian seat in the Philippine senate: VOTE # 44 Senator Gwendolyn Pimentel-Gana for Senator!!! On May 3, 2010, some Alumni Board Directors led by its President, Ms. Lulu Robles, joined our Senator Gwen in the ABS-CBN sponsored Tapatan in La Consolacion College, Manila from 8:00PM to 2:00AM(yes, way past bedtime for most of us). It was a forum of different political parties to showcase their program on different issues. Gwen, of course, was fully armed not only with her wisdom but more importantly, her sincerity. It was loud and clear that she didn’t only possess astuteness, but a heart that truly desires to serve the people, as his honorable father Senator Aquilino Pimentel does so well. Two days
Cheers, Gwen Pimentel-Gana, Batch ‘77
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before election, some Alumni Board Directors led, by its President, once again joined Gwen’s Marikina motorcade from 6:30AM (yes, when some are far off from morphing, to 1:00PM). Gwen’s rah rah Alumni Board Directors were Vangee Andrada ’71, Eileen Tawatao-Garcia ’74, Peachy Ribaya-Bumatay ’74, Amy Tengco ‘77, Candy Ocampo ’83..oh how they howled, yelled, clapped with their might..hush hush Marians. During the motorcade, the Tapatan group was joined by Lynn Aguilar-Umali ’70, Carol Aguilar ‘ , Tet Samson ’79 and Meiose Tan-Cristobal ’82. Gwen may not have landed a seat in the Senate, but victory is definitely hers as she captured the hearts and admiration not only of her Marian sisters but of the millions who believed in her sincerity and competence. She, nevertheless, had a promising finish for a first time candidate. With the legacy of public service that her father, the Honorable Senator Aquilino Pimentel, confidently passed on for her to carry on, Gwen is just in the beginning of her journey. It may not have been easy, and never will be, to traverse a road less traveled, but with God’s grace and with the support of those who shared her advocacy of service, including her Marian family, Gwen will definitely reach her journey’s end triumphant.
Marian Alumni Newsletter • July 2010 SMCAF Board of Directors 2009-2011 “Shocked” was the response of Dean Gloria Santos to the surprise testimonial dinner cum birthday party that the alumni had sponsored for her on her 38th birthday. This was held last May 22, 2010 at Rustica Restaurant. The occasion also celebrates the years she has served St. Mary’s College in various capacities (and more fondly as the school’s College Dean) as she officially retires from service. What made the affair most memorable was the presence of Dean Santos’ immediate family, her daughter, Dr. Normamina Fernandez, granddaughter, Malou with her fiance. It took the tenacity and persistence of Eileen Tawatao Garcia to confirm their attendance and that made it so special for Dean Gloria. The surprise element was ably handled by our alumni secretary, Amy, who in the pretext of it being her birthday party had Dean Santos readily agree to the invitation and even brought with her Amy’s gift.
The program began after a sumptuous meal of Filipino dishes. Yours truly invoked God’s blessing which was followed by the opening remarks of our alumni president, Lulu Robles who likewise had the distinct privilege of honoring, reminiscing, acknowledging and presenting to Dean Gloria, the symbols of our love and appreciation. After the gustatory and verbal feasting, the SMCAF chorale provided the auditory delights and rendered a heartwarming ‘Hindi Kita Malimot’ and Dean’s favorite, ‘Climb Every Mountain’ that accompanied the visual feast of Dean’s photos through the years in St. Marys College. Not to be outdone in toasting and roasting Dean Gloria were SMC President, S. Ma. Anicia B. Co, alumni adviser, Madam Cecille N. Temporal, fellow Marian and board member, Eileen Tawatao-Garcia and past presidents, Corina P. Isaguirre and Fe Silica Serquina-Arellano, whom Dean Gloria lovingly coached and guided throughout their tenures. It was indeed a woderful way to celebrate a birth, a life, and a future strewn with more fruitful years.
Paraluman R. Robles ‘79 President Eileen Tawatao-Garcia ‘74 Director for Alumni Affairs Evangeline Andrada-Palileo ‘71 Director for Finance Nerisse Aquino-Jose ‘76 Director for Publicity and Promotions Gwendolyn Pimentel-Gana ‘77 Director for Scholarship Amelita G. Tengco ‘77 Director for Communications and Documentation Aurea Gega-Relos ‘79 Estela Marie VillanuevaMendoza ‘78 Ma. Theresa Samson ‘79 Directors for Community Devt and Directors for Special Projects Meiose Tan-Cristobal ‘82 Director for Membership Lynn Aguilar-Umali ‘70 Director for Corporate Affairs Maria Elvira Sison-Pascual ‘76 Director for Marketing Ma. Rosario RibayaBumatay ‘74 Candida Ocampo ‘83 Ma. Theresa Mercado-Tan ‘78 Directors Gracia Camacho-De Jesus ‘74 Immediate Past President BOARD OF ADVISERS Ms. Cecille NavarretteTemporal Dean Gloria Santos Priscelina Patajo-Legasto ‘68 Lorna Patajo-Kapunan ‘69 Corina ParungaoIsaguirre ‘75 Ms. Fe Silica SerquinaArellano ‘69
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